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How to Choose Your Elopement Date

Filed in Planning Tips — March 5, 2025

I see this one common elopement mistake made all the time…

Before I teach you how to choose the best elopement date, I want you to be aware of the common mistake I see couples make all the time, that could derail your dream day: choosing your date before selecting your location or hiring your photographer.

The biggest mistake I see folks making all the time is this: setting your date first. This is such an easy mistake to make, because you think you should approach elopement planning just like planning a traditional wedding, which is totally understandable! The problem is, adventure elopements aren’t the same as a traditional wedding, so they shouldn’t be planned the same either, and that’s good thing!

Eloping gives you the freedom to get married practically anywhere, and do whatever you want to with your day! Don’t be afraid to dream big…. BUT, and this is a big but (not to be confused with a big butt, okay don’t let me scare you away with my humor, I blame my 2 toddlers 😆) this bucket list of the day can only become a reality if you trust me on this one: choose your location, and even your photographer (who should specialize in elopements) before you set a firm date.

And I get it, you want to keep that sentimental dating anniversary, or cutesy palindrome date or whatever the reason, but think about this.

Imagine it’s your elopement day, standing in the most breathtaking place with your person and everything is unfolding exactly how you dreamed. 

Now ask yourself… does the magic of this moment come from the date in the calendar? Or does it come from the freedom to craft a day that’s truly yours—without limitations, without restrictions, just pure, unforgettable adventure?

Choosing your date too soon into the elopement planning process can lead to unforeseen challenges, such as accessibility issues, unfavorable weather conditions, and limited options for photography and privacy. Instead, focus on your desired scenery, weather, and level of seclusion to determine the best time and place for your elopement. By prioritizing these elements, you ensure a seamless and memorable experience that truly reflects your love story.

To assist you further, I’ve created a comprehensive guide on choosing the perfect elopement date and location. This resource offers insights into various destinations, optimal seasons, and practical tips to help you navigate the planning process with ease. Whether you’re envisioning a mountain adventure, a desert escape, or a coastal celebration, this guide will provide the information you need to make informed decisions on how to choose your elopement date. Let’s go through it, and then I’ll wrap this up with some final advice on planning your dream elopement!

How to Choose an Elopement Date by Salisha Blackburn

Now that you’ve learned a bit about how to choose your elopement date, let’s talk about how to start planning the rest of your elopement

When planning your elopement, it’s super important to stay flexible with your date. This wiggle room can make things like securing permits, finding the perfect spot, hiring a photographer easier. Plus, your flexibility will allow you to take full advantage of your elopement photographer’s expertise so they can help guide you through these details!

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Feeling Overwhelmed? Let Me Help with Permits

I get it—planning an elopement can feel like juggling flaming torches. But don’t stress! I’m here to help you navigate the permit process and all those nitty-gritty details. We’ll tackle this together, making sure everything’s in place so you can focus on what really matters: your love story.

Capturing Your Authentic Moments

My photography philosophy? It’s all about keeping it real. I aim to capture those genuine, unposed moments that truly reflect your unique bond. Think of me as your personal storyteller, freezing those candid interactions and emotions that make your relationship one-of-a-kind.

Let’s Connect and Start Planning

Ready to make this elopement the adventure of a lifetime? Reach out, and let’s start crafting a day that’s as extraordinary as your love. Whether you need help with permits, location scouting, or just want to chat about your vision, I’m here for you. Let’s make your elopement dreams come true!

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