So you want to propose in Big Sur?
There’s just something about this stretch of the California coast that makes big moments feel even bigger. Big Sur feels adventurous without being overwhelming, with dramatic ocean views that don’t need much else to feel special. It’s the kind of place where the moment feels natural, emotional, and has just the right amount of adventure and intimacy for popping the big question.
not Sure where to start when it comes to planning?
If you’re excited about proposing but not sure where to begin, that’s completely normal. Planning a proposal in Big Sur comes with a lot of moving pieces — location, timing, privacy, and keeping it a surprise — and it’s easy to feel stuck before you even start. But you don't need to have it all figured out!
You don’t have to plan this alone or have every detail figured out before reaching out. I help you choose the right location, talk through timing and lighting, and create a plan that feels natural and low-pressure — not staged or stressful. My goal is to make the entire experience feel simple, intentional, and focused on the moment you’re actually there for.
Working with me feels less like hiring a vendor and more like having someone in your corner who knows Big Sur really well. I’ll help you think through the details you might not even realize matter yet, while keeping things calm, flexible, and easy. You get to focus on showing up, being present, and enjoying the moment — I’ll handle the rest.
how I help you plan your big sur proposal
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As your Big Sur proposal photographer, I’ll help you:
Craft a day that feels completely you — intentional, fun, and full of meaning.
Find the most beautiful, tucked-away Yosemite locations for your vows and portraits.
Build a stress-free timeline that lets you stay present and enjoy every moment.
Capture your story in a way that feels effortless, genuine, and alive.
1. Choose the right spot that fits your vision, whether that’s iconic Big Sur cliffs or something more quiet and private.
2. Decide what to wear and help you subtly prep her outfit too, so everything looks cohesive without giving anything away.
3. Plan the best timing for your proposal, because lighting matters for both photos and the feel of the moment.
4. Feel comfortable on camera, even if taking photos normally feels awkward or unnatural
5. Keep the entire proposal a surprise, so you can focus on the moment instead of the logistics
My approach to Photography
Easygoing energy: From planning to the proposal itself, I keep things calm and fun so it never feels stressful or stiff.
Real moments first: I focus on candid, in-between moments — the nervous laughs, the deep breaths, the emotion right after they say yes.
Gentle direction: When it’s time for portraits, I’ll guide you just enough so you feel comfortable and confident, never posed or awkward.
Timeless editing: Clean, true-to-life tones with a cinematic feel — no heavy filters, just images that still feel like you years from now.
Your Big Sur engagement proposal isn’t just about getting photos — it’s about honoring a real, once-in-a-lifetime moment. My approach is simple: document it in a way that feels natural, relaxed, and true to who you are, without turning it into a production.
work with me
One of the best parts about proposing in Big Sur is that you’re already in one of the most beautiful places in California for photos. After the proposal, we’ll spend some time exploring together and capturing natural, relaxed Big Sur engagement photos along the coast so you can soak in the excitement instead of rushing off to the next thing. A lot of couples end up loving this part just as much as the proposal itself because it gives you time to slow down, celebrate, and fully enjoy being newly engaged together.
Your Proposal + Big Sur Engagement Photos
here's what to expect from our photo-session
- TONI ZABALA
"SHE hELPED ME FEEL COMFORTABLE"
- TONI XABALA
"SHE hELPED ME FEEL COMFORTABLE"
- 1-hour, 2-hour, half day, or full day packages
- Personalized Location Guide.
- Couples Styling Guide.
- Zoom Planning Consultation
- Cinematic & Art Filled Photography.
- Digital gallery to view, download, print, and share your images.
- 20+ Next-Day Sneak Peek Images.
- Photographer travel included.
photography packages
Starting at $2,000
Average Investment $3,500
what's included
what's included
Big Sur Proposal
- madison olson
“she provided us with prompts and made us so comfortable”
- madison olson
“she provided us with prompts and made us so comfortable”
Even though Big Sur is a perfect place to propose during any season, the vibes can change depending on the time of year — fog, wind, sunshine, and even June Gloom can show up unexpectedly, so plan for layers and flexibility. Golden hour (about an hour before sunset) gives the most flattering light and fewer crowds, but sunrise can be just as magical — and even quieter. Since weather here can be unpredictable, always check the forecast as your date gets closer and have a simple backup plan ready.
1. Think About Season, Weather & Lighting
1. Think About Season, Weather & Lighting
Big Sur Proposal Planning Tips
This isn’t just about someone snapping photos — choosing a Big Sur photographer who has lived in this area means you get someone who knows where the beautiful spots are, when they’re best photographed, and how to time the moment perfectly. A pro can also help you scout locations that fit your vision, avoid crowds, and keep the whole proposal feeling authentic and stress-free.
2. Work With an Expert Who Knows the Area
2. Work With an Expert Who Knows the Area
Figuring out these logistics early means no last-minute headaches. Knowing the parking situation, when tides roll in, and how busy a spot gets on certain days also helps keep your moment private and calm.
3. the Details Matter
3. the Details Matter
- emily and ryan
"She captured our engagement in the most magical way"
Golden hour (the hour before sunset) is popular for a reason — the light is soft and romantic — but sunrise can be just as beautiful and way more private. We’ll choose a time based on lighting, crowds, and the overall vibe you’re going for.
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Fog is actually very common in Big Sur and can be incredibly beautiful in photos. Rain can be common in the winter, but can add so much drama and romance to the photos. I’ll help you plan with the weather in mind and talk through backup options so you’re not stressed if conditions change.
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Absolutely. From helping you plan a believable cover story to positioning myself discreetly, keeping the proposal a surprise is a huge part of what I do. I've got a few tricks up my sleeve, so don't be worried about the surprise, I got you!
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I’ll help you choose outfits that photograph well, work with the weather, and feel like you. I can also help you subtly guide her outfit choices so everything looks cohesive without raising suspicion.
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Yes — choosing the right location is a big part of the planning process. I’ll help you decide between iconic Big Sur views or more quiet, tucked-away spots based on privacy, accessibility, lighting, and the overall vibe you want for the proposal.
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Big Sur Proposal & Engagement FAQs
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